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Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Review: Graveminder by Melissa Marr

Publisher: William Morrow
Genre: Mystery, paranormal
Trade paperback, 352 pages
Book Source: TLC Book Tours
My Rating: 85/100

From TLC Book Tours home page:


Rebekkah Barrow never forgot the tender attention her grandmother, Maylene, bestowed upon the dead of Claysville. While growing up, Rebekkah watched as Maylene performed the same unusual ritual at every funeral: three sips from a small silver flask followed by the words, “Sleep well, and stay where I put you.”

Now Maylene is gone and Bek must return to the hometown—and the man—she abandoned a decade ago, only to discover that Maylene’s death was not natural . . . and there was good reason for her odd traditions. In Claysville, the worlds of the living and the dead are dangerously connected—and beneath the town lies a shadowy, lawless land ruled by the enigmatic Charles, aka Mr. D. From this dark place the deceased will return if their graves are not properly minded. And only the Graveminder, a Barrow woman, and the current Undertaker, Byron, can set things to right once the dead begin to walk. . . .

My Thoughts:


The town of Claysville entered into a contract with supernatural forces long ago for the protection and well being of its residents.  Two families pay the high price the contract demands: the Barrows,  women who serve as Graveminders for the dead and, currently, the Montgomerys, the men who serve as the Undertakers for the dead, and coincidentally operate the only funeral home in town.  It is now time for Rebekkah and Byron to assume their roles, unfortunately they have no idea what awaits them.  They have been kept in the dark about their ultimate work by the families who loved them dearly, and wanted to see them have normal lives, at least for a bit.  Once Rebekkah and Byron assume their duties as Graveminder and Undertaker, everything changes. 

I loved the world and plot Marr created in this book.  The world of the living and dead being side by side, how things worked, the traditions, the back story, etc.  It is interesting and fresh to me.  What I didn’t like and almost made me put the books down, was the relationship between Rebekkah and Byron.  They have a history together that goes back to their high school days.  There was a tragic event and they felt guilty about it, almost as if they were the impetus for it.  Regardless, there is a chemistry between them, a pull neither one can shake; and over the years they have come together as lovers, and then parted on bad terms, usually with Rebekkah doing the breaking up.  I get all that.  Rebekkah has issues.  However, when she and Byron meet up again, Rebekkah came across to me as a bit of a tease. 

At first, it was bearable, but then I felt as though Rebekkah’s behavior was too much. She knows Byron loves her and only her, but she continues to lead him on and shut him down, refusing not to talk about their relationship.  Yet, hold me close because I’m lonely and scared.  I felt like Byron was a puppy and Rebekkah was teasing him with treats.  I disliked Rebekkah greatly and almost put the book down, but….I sucked it up and finished the book, because of the overall arc.  I wanted to know what was going to happen.

Thankfully by the end of the story, Byron stood up for himself like a man, and Rebekkah wised herself up.  Together, they tackled the problem of the worlds of the living and the dead being side by side.  This book finishes nicely and does not end on a cliffhanger.  However, Marr has left her options open and the overall arc is nowhere near finished.  There are clues in both worlds that something is not right and issues need to be addressed. 

With the exception of the relationship issue, I did enjoy this book.  Marr has a way of writing and world building that allows for the real world to melt away.  I would read the next one in the series, however I’m not waiting on pins and needles.

For more information about the author, Melissa Marr, and all of her books, please visit one of her many social media sites:



For other reviews and points of view, check out some of the other tour stops:

Tuesday, January 17th: Unabridged Chick
Tuesday, January 17th: The Road to Here
Wednesday, January 18th: Raging Bibliomania
Thursday, January 19th: Wordsmithonia
Friday, January 20th: Lesa’s Book Critiques
Monday, January 23rd: Books Like Breathing
Tuesday, January 24th: Jenny Loves to Read
Wednesday, January 25th: Life in Review
Thursday, January 26th: Reviews by Lola
Tuesday, January 31st: Elle Lit.
Wednesday, February 1st: The Scarlet Letter
Thursday, February 2nd: Savvy Verse & Wit

Thanks to TLC Book Tours for including me on the tour :)

Thanks to TLC Book Tours for including me on the tour :)


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Friday, January 20, 2012

Fitness Friday: Weights and Strength Training


This week you should be thinking about adding some weights to your routine.  All of the cardio and dieting in the world is not going to give you that definition you are looking for.  You will lose weight, sure, but the definition or toned look comes from weight training.  And don't worry, women don't bulk up like men, unless you take steroids or something.  Our bodies are just not built to do that help without help.

Strength training not only tones your muscles, but makes your body a more effective furnace for calories.  Muscle burns more calories while inactive than fat.  Also, strength training helps fight age-related loss of muscle mass, in addition to osteoporosis.  Our bones and muscles work together to strengthen and support our body as a whole, protecting our joints and internal organs, and helping us to stand up straighter.  But we need to challenge our bones and muscles to make them stronger.  Capisce?

There are many ways to strength train.  You can start off with just your body weight or you can use free weights.  These can be purchased or Target or Walmart.  You can also make weights from items in your house, such as soup cans, water bottles, or filling empty water bottles with sand.  The ideas is to start with a weight that you can lift with good form and not strain,  however the last few reps should be difficult.  If you never lifted weights before, go easy.  You can start with 3 lbs. to be on the safe side.  I started with 5lbs. and worked my way up from there.  It took quite some time.

The plan is to do 2 sets, 10-12 reps of each move.  The following are beginner exercises and what I used when I first started out.  I would recommend checking YouTube to watch the correct way to perform these moves and try doing them in front of a mirror.  And if a move is painful don't do it.  Find something else.

  • Biceps curl
  • Chest press
  • Deadlift
  • One arm kneeling row
  • Lunges OR squats (just be sure not to let your knee go past your toes; some days I can't do one or the other due to the bad knees)
  • Seated shoulder press
  • Triceps kick back OR overhead press
  • Single calf raises (one leg at a time)
  • Crunches
  • Superman move (laying on your stomach, strengthens your back)
If these seems too much or you would rather try moves using strictly your body weight, this link will give you a program from Livestrong.  It's a good program and I do many of these moves myself, minus the jumping ones towards the end.  The knees don't like it.

Well I think that's enough food for thought for this week. Before we chat again in two weeks, 

tell me, how has the past two weeks of cardio gone for you?  Enjoy it, see any improvement?  What would you like to add to your routine?  Any topics you like to see in an upcoming Fitness Friday?



DISCLAIMER: I am not a fitness expert.  Anything I post on here is from my own experiences or from books, magazines, or websites I have read.  You do what you will with the information I provide.


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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Review: The Luxe by Anna Godbersen


Publisher: Harper Collins
Genre: YA
Hardback 433 pages
Source: borrowed from the library
My Rating: 97/100


In the self-contained world of young Gilded Age Manhattan socialites, Elizabeth and Diana Holland reign supreme. Or so it seems. Scratch the surface, though, and you can detect festering jealousies that threaten to topple them. Elizabeth suffers a more literal fall when her carriage overturns and she is carried away by the swift East River current. That's only the beginning of the action and suspense in The Luxe, the launch volume in a teen series by Anna Godbersen. (From Goodreads)


My Thoughts:


Decadent...fun......deliciously sinful.  These are the wrods that immediately come to mind after reading The Luxe.  The plot is not difficult.  It is actually very simple and to me completely predictable.  It was however the journey in finishing the book, the delight I had while reading this book, that made it's simpleness palatable.  The basic plot is this: rich, young, gorgeous people in 1899 New York, that must marry certain people for family's sake.  They gossip, party, and waste their days away thinking how awesome they all.  Now although all of the characters sound totally vapid, there are one or two that make the story redeemable.  There is Diana Holland who tries to buck convention.  She likes to read, dress differently, and speak her mind.  There is also Henry Schoonmaker who starts out as quite a despicable character, but when he meets the woman he really loves, he changes his ways.  At least the best that he can.  His character becomes much more likable.  I would be remiss if I didn't mention Penelope the trouble maker.  She is quite a piece of work, and every story needs a villain, don't they? 


Overall, the book has the feel of soap opera, something I don't normally read.  But for whatever reason, I completely lost myself in this book.  One could say Godbersen is trying to demonstrate how women had little freedom, and family was everything, but to analyze this book in that way seems false to me. The Luxe is a guilty pleasure, plain and simple.  It allowed me to escape life and imagine being a fly on the wall in 1899 New York, and for me that is the sign of a good read.  I can't wait to get my hands on the second in the series, Rumors.  


{Previously cross-posted on Royal Reviews}


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